The 5 Stages of Getting a New Work-From-Home Job

You know that saying, “If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans”?

Well, that’s basically been my life as of late.

Between long car rides for funerals, sickness, and other day-to-day bumps, I haven’t gotten to post everything on here that I have wanted. (I guess that comes with having a side hustle sometimes… big plans have to be put on the back burner because of family, day jobs, and life in general).

Since next week is Thanksgiving, I will not be posting anything new, BUT I will be working hard to get ahead for the rest of the year, so stay tuned!

Today, I leave you with an article I wrote on my personal blog nearly 4 years ago regarding the 5 stages of getting a new work-from-home job (or any job, for that matter)… like grief, the emotions come in different spurts, which I was randomly reminded of the other day whilst speaking to a friend about her new job.

Enjoy! Happy Thanksgiving!

A few weeks ago, I got a new job.

Finding a job I could do at home with Jax (in addition to my marketing) is something I prayed about, searched high and low, and constantly scoured for on Craigslist.

I finally found it.

I'm currently writing daily entertainment articles for a national site and couldn't be happier -- my bosses/co-workers are awesome, the work itself is a blast, I get to keep working while staying home with my little tyke, AND I'm learning a ton about my home state! It's a win/win/win/win.

Anyway, from the time I was offered the job to the time I started writing/setting up posts, I experienced 5 all too familiar feelings. I've worked several different industries in my 25 years (retail, hospitality, journalism, and food to name a few) and have felt these varying emotions every single time -- and this time around, it finally occurred to me what was happening.

You know how there's the 5 stages of grief? Well there's also the 5 stages of getting a new job. Don't believe me? Read on..

Ladies and gentlemen: I present to you the Annie Sandmeier Model (or the 5 Stages of Getting a New Job).

1.) Shock - One of the first reactions is shock, wherein the applicant cannot believe they were the (supposed) most qualified candidate out of all the (assumed) people who applied.

2.) Excitement - When the applicant recognizes that they did indeed get the job and that shock cannot continue, it becomes excited, possibly a little cocky. Certain psychological responses of a person undergoing this phase would be: "Eff yeah! I got the freaking job!"; "Hey *insert significant other's name here*, I got the job so you need to take me out and give me a back rub to celebrate!"; "I need to go out and spend all the money on new work clothes (which, in my case would be yoga pants and pajamas, since I work from home)!" 

3.) Pure, Unadulterated Panic - The third phase involves recipient realizing that the cockiness may have been a bit premature. Usually, the job recipient is given a swift kick in the ego and begins to negotiate with a higher power in exchange for a reformed lifestyle: "Hi God; it's Annie again.. I'm sorry I got so ahead of myself with this new job.. Again.. I pray that this first week goes smoothly and that I can quickly learn everything I need to do.. If it does, I promise to limit my Netflix binging. Amen."

4.) Self Doubt - "I can't do this job! Why did I think I could handle this?!" "Why did I apply for a writing job.. I can't even write!" 

5.) Acceptance - "Okay, okay.. so maybe I CAN do this." "You got this, girl! Just remember to breathe." In this last stage, individuals embrace the new job, figure out their new schedule, and overall just get their shi — err stuff — together. 

I think that the hardest part for me was getting used to the writing, deadlines, etc., but once I found a good balance and made myself a little schedule, I realized that everything would be just fine! I try to do most of my work either very early in the morning (before Jackson is awake) or wait to do it after dinner (when Brandon is home and can watch him for a bit). I'm loving my new job and feel extremely blessed to be doing what I'm doing from home! 

Mom Boss Interview: Heather Criswell from WiseInside

2018 is coming to an end… have you started making your New Year’s resolution yet?

If beginning your business and/or working from home is your goal, I highly recommend reading on, as today’s mom boss is making a big difference in the world and wants you to do the same! If you are ready to be inspired, meet the incredible Heather Criswell: a wife, boy mom, author, and motivational speaker who is changing the world by #rootingforlove.

Here she is:

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Heather: I have never met you in person but just reading through your website makes me feel like you would be an amazing mentor and friend! Can you please tell us a little bit about yourself and your background?

Thanks so much Annie for giving me the opportunity to share. My life has been full of peaks and valleys, but I'm happy to say that I still rise and shine through it all. I started my journey as an entrepreneur at 21 years old. I was presented with an opportunity to open a preschool and left college to follow my dreams. After nearly a decade of owning the school, I decided to focus on adults for awhile. I opened a holistic wellness center and worked with clients to experience alternative healing methods. I sold the wellness center and started an online business to help parents and children communicate and connect with games, mediations, and coaching. Now, I am hosting a podcast, local town hall meetings, and helping people reconnect to life's purpose by Rooting for Love. I currently reside in Las Vegas, Nevada with my husband and 7-year old son. 

Your story is so inspirational and relatable on so many levels! How did your story bring you to WiseInside? 

Life gives us so many opportunities to follow our own wisdom, our gut instinct.  We know we are WiseInside as babies, we know what we need and want.  Over time, that "knowing" gets chipped away and replaced with other's opinions, ideas, advice and wisdom. We often loose the connection we have to our own wisdom. We are guided throughout our days and lives, but often disregard the "nudge" from within. When I follow my intuition, my wisdom, my heart...everything seems to work out in my best interest. 

What do you offer via WiseInside? Who would most benefit from this community?

I offer tools to help you reconnect to your own wisdom. Those of us that are tired of "you should" or "you have to" would benefit from reconnecting to the wisdom within. 

Just what is #rootingforlove and why is it so important?

#rootingforlove is a movement to help us all remember that life is rooting for us and when we root for each other, we have the power to do the impossible. 

I was on a podcast about a year ago. We had a beautiful conversation with the emphasis  on my book, Wise Talk from the Other Side (conversations I have had with my family members that have passed on) it was a powerful chat and at the end he said, “Heather, I want you to know we are rooting for you.”  Something shifted. I sent him a message after the show and thanked him for rooting for me. It was so profound, it felt so powerful, and I had no idea why. He responded quickly with a story…”Theres a species of trees that should not be able to grow as tall as it does. It has the ability to link root systems with other trees so it can weather any storm and not be uprooted. On the surface, it’s an anomaly. Underneath it is entwined with the others so it can “do the impossible”. That’s what I meant by “we’re rooting for you.”And there’s more…on the surface the trees are separated by great distances but those roots can stretch football fields in length, they seek each other out. 

This is why #roootingforlove is so important. 

We seek each other out to root in and do the impossible.  

Because This journey through life is filled with struggles, challenges, grief, loss. frustrations, misunderstandings, we often forget our truth. 

We are born in love, with love, and for love. 

How did you go about building this brand/community and what advice can you give other moms out there looking to build their own business (or even movement)?

It has been a long journey...because I had to take my own advice and stop listening to what everyone thought I should be doing, and do what I love instead. I had to trust that my love, passion, and excitement would open doors that I didn't know were available to me. I trust that everything is working out for me, even when it doesn't look like it in the moment. I trust that life is rooting for me and so many people want success for me too!  I know when I follow my heart, I will always succeed. I know that I will rise above any circumstance, love myself and others through it, and shine brighter than I imagined. 

As a fellow mompreneur, I gotta know: How do you balance it all? What does a day in your shoes look like?

Haha!  I don't believe in balance. At all. Nope. haha!  Everyday is different.  Some days I am very focused on business, other days I am at the park for 5 hours with my son. I gave up on the idea of balance. I used to feel guilty if I spent too much time working or too much time neglecting my work. Now I know that in the end, it all "balances out" on it's own. Sometimes I need a full day of grind and other days I need to step away from the computer and breathe in air from the park all day. What I know for sure, we are all doing our best, and that's enough. For reals. That's enough. 

What do you consider to be the greatest thing to have happened since launching WiseInside? 

The greatest thing that has happened is a confirmation that I am here on purpose. My words have meaning and help others (and myself) along the way. I know that every act of  love that I do on a daily basis is reminding us all that our purpose is simply to shine. Our purpose is in the small acts of love we do every single day. Because those acts of love travel and heal the world in more ways than we can imagine. 

Incredible, right? To connect with Heather and/or WiseInside, visit her Facebook, Instagram, or Pinterest.

Open An Tiny Online Boutique And Make Money With Kollectin

Disclaimer: This is a sponsored post, meaning I may have received payment and/or free product in exchange for this post. That being said, I would never give my endorsement/recommendation for something I didn't absolutely love!

Being a mom to young kids is one of the happiest, most trying, and most expensive times in our lives. 

We ooze pride when our 2-year-old sings their ABCs or counts to 10 for the first time.

We heavily sigh when we sit down for the first time all day, just to hear screams and cries of "mommy!" coming from down the hall.

We cringe every time we go to Costco and spend $100+ on JUST diapers, pull-ups, and wipes.

It's a tough job, ladies... but let me just say that you are rocking it! 

Despite the days with (in my case) an almost 5-year-old and 2-year-old being so long, I feel incredibly blessed to be able to stay home with my boys and work around their schedules; it is something that I will never take for granted, as I know there are millions of moms out there who yearn to stay home with their babies.

According to a recent study from the U.S. Department of Agriculture, the estimated cost of raising a child from 0 to 18 is a whopping $233,610, which does not even include the cost of a college tuition! With the cost of raising just one child nearly a quarter-of-a-million dollars, it is no wonder why so many moms who want to stay home have to work, and it is also why I am so thankful to learn about and partner with companies like Kollectin!

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What is Kollectin? Kollectin is an innovative fashion tech startup geared to empower women and help them flaunt their style and individuality while making money and allowing them to be their own Girl Boss. 

If you have been around my corner of the web for awhile, you know that I have experimented with both selling on eBay and Amazon, which -- while potentially lucrative -- also proved to be stressful in shopping for inventory (not to mention coming up with the money to purchase your inventory), keeping track of overhead, running back and forth to the post office, and so on. 

This is where the beauty of Kollectin comes in: You don't have to spend tons of money to make money (unless you decide to keep product on hand, in which case you buy the jewelry at wholesale price and sell it at retail!) OR go through the hassle of stocking your own tiny boutique, as Kollectin — with no cost, no subscription — does all the work for you! 

How does Kollectin work? With their Tiny Boutique Box program, you get to pick and choose the jewelry you love, and manage everything with a couple of swipes of your phone: keep for yourself, sell, or send back and get something new. It's that simple.

Are you the girl who loves to experiment with new looks and accessories? 

Kollectin is for you.

Does your tribe consider you to be the group fashionista? 

Kollectin is for you.

Are you a busy stay-at-home mom, college student, or side hustler looking to make a little extra money each month?

You see where I am going with this, right? 

Even if you are not in the market to make extra money (if that is even a thing), Kollectin is a fabulous platform, as they partner with numerous designers to bring you not only the hottest looks, but special pricing and deals, rewards, and style inspiration. 

"Whether you are a girlfriend or an Influencer, you get to choose your favorite jewelry designs and build a virtual store to promote them."

Now for the million dollar question: Just how does one build their own tiny boutique... through an app? 

When you first log in to the app, you are asked to create your own style profile, which may sound daunting (it did to me, at least), but is actually really fun, as you get to browse through numerous necklaces, rings, bracelets, and earrings, and decide which pieces best fit your style!

Here are a few of my picks:

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Totally fab, right?! 

Once you have chosen your favorites, your tiny boutique has been established, meaning you can enjoy a discount on your chosen pretties OR invite your friends to shop your collection! 

(As I previously mentioned, when you make a purchase through the app, you not only receive some of the newest styles, but special deals, pricing, and rewards as well.)

When your friends purchase? You receive a generous commission! So cool, right? 

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Whether you are a busy mom, broke college student, fashionista, or influencer, be sure to check out Kollectin! (Psst... Christmas is coming and EVERYONE could use some pretty new earrings or a chic handbag ;) 

To apply to be one of Kollectin's first influencers, simply fill out their application/survey here: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/X9D5T5G

The Kollectin App is currently available on both iPhone and Android

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